2nd Book An LDS Approach
There are step by step instructions on how to do DER on yourself or others. This is my favorite method to clear Generational Issues, and does so through the eyes because the light of the body is the eye. It is what the spirit has taught me to do over 12 years as I've worked with family, neighbors, and several hundred clients. It has practical steps on how to "dance in the rain" even while life's seeming chaos surrounds us. This book
Chapter Titles:
Power, About Doctrine, Spiritual Gifts, Deep Emotion Release, Higher Consciousness: Forgiveness, Gratitude and Praise in all things, Faith Talk Statements and Imageries, Charity is a Purifier, Quotes about Eyes, My Dream, About Mental Illness, Stories about Generational Releasing, Generational Quotes from General Authorities and Scripture, Generational Quotes from LDS Authors, Generational Quotes from Other Authors, Darkness vs. Light, Proxy and Distance Healing, The Last Days.
Book Description
Discover how to clear trapped emotions and trauma through the EYES.
Learn how to SEE generational issues shift! Learn to see what scripture calls "darkness" leave.
Detailed instructions are given on how to do Deep Emotion Release (DER) to clear trauma, unprocessed emotions and family patterns through the eyes. "The light of the body is the eye." (Matt. 6:22)
Deep Emotion Release is an elegant, spiritual modality for self-care or to help others, even distantly.
There is a comprehensive collection of quotes and scriptures about generational healing or overcoming covenant curses - the dysfunctional family patterns passed down in the DNA.
Validating quotes by prophets and apostles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints are included for the principles used in Generational Clearing and the Deep Emotion Release process.
The preface and introduction briefly review profound insights on the universal Light of Christ in scripture, also known as life force energy (from Tamara Laing’s first book: Healing Arts – A Gift From God).
Chapter topics include: spiritual gifts; healing; women and power; higher consciousness: forgiveness, gratitude and praise in all things; charity as a purifier; helpful perceptions about mental illness; the last days; and distance work.
This powerful book offers a paradigm shift regarding trials and gives practical steps to use in any life challenges including a suicidal loved one (like the author experienced).
Lesser known pieces to the puzzle of dis-ease and mental illness are discussed. The author has compiled unique scripture lists on “light vs. darkness” to overcome devices of the adversary.
Delightful and surprising stories and examples are woven throughout the book on using the Deep Emotion Release process - even at a distance- to assist those wanting to overcome grief, suicidal thoughts, ritual abuse, same sex attraction, addictive behavior and more. This book exudes hope! It is one approach shared by a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
This book has extremely rewarding material. [Learn to] help yourself, your family members and others. It will serve as a guide for people for years to come. What a gift Tamara has shared within these pages -- ways to heal from the past so that we can move forward in strength and become who we were sent to earth to become.” - Sabrina Potter
"People who have been abused are beginning to heal just by reading your book." - Name withheld
"Tamara's topic is truly life changing! How to get out of "false traditions of our fathers..." Here is wisdom on becoming the 'Elect' of God: what it is, and 'how do I get there?'" - Robin Young
"The forgiveness work [in this book] has changed my life and my marriage." Paula 'Sister of the same mission'
"I met with Tamara for a Rapid Eye Technology session. While that modality was effective, Tamara made a suggestion to try something different, and recommended we do a DER method she felt would work better for me. The experience I had was profound. Very quickly, I was able to feel a deeper connection that allowed for a stronger divine connection using DER. She was able to connect me to the Divine, and bring in [shifts] where previous modalities could not. I suspect, this largely was related to my spiritual orientation and gifts, and preferred the approach to other experiences. Her use of DER was profoundly different from other experiences, and I was deeply grateful." - Jeff
“My dear wife saw a big change for the better even after her first visit with Tamara. There is definitely something to the DER and RET principles that have been applied. I am grateful to see someone who I dearly love find a pathway to relief from suffering. There is more yet to learn and apply but we do know that there is power available to us that may yet be untapped. There is no end to the power of the mind through our faith in God and His power that He grants unto those who humbly seek it. I feel that the power of miracles will increase in the days ahead. It is up to us to make it happen. I hope that I may be an instrument for good to bless people's lives.” - Neal
"I am reading your [new] book and love the stories, examples and scriptures. You have done so much research and awesome study to find this information. I sure appreciate all that you contribute to me and this planet." Rhonda
More testimonials are in the book. Feel free to add your comments below. This book is sold on Paypal buttons on this site as well as on Amazon.
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Mental Health "First Aid"
Disclaimer:
This blog is not intended to be understood as medical advice.
I am sharing as a mother of a daughter diagnosed with Schizo-Affective Disorder Bipolar type who has "been there." I am not a doctor or a mental health professional. Emotional Release help is below.
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1. Processing trapped trauma/emotions
for herself and generations before with Rapid Eye Technology (RET).
Rapid Eye Technology is a neuroscience and spiritually based healing process which provides for ocular assisted release and is characterized by systemic movement of eyes and eyelids, rapid verbal communication and special imageries that effect a release of stressful emotions on many levels of human experience.
Rapid Eye Technology processes the trapped energy physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually. I share a few examples in my first book about this.
For cognitive learning, the "other half" of RET teaches positive skills for living so old patterns are not recreated. Learn more about RET on this post:
Rapid Eye Technology explained by the founder.
(Or read Remembering Wholeness by Carol Tuttle or Reclaim Your Light through the Miracle of Rapid Eye Technology by Dr. Ranae Johnson.)
"Energy psychology (EP) modalities have been researched in more than 7 countries and by more than 50 investigators. Results have been published in more than 15 different peer-reviewed journals, including the Journal of Clinical Psychology and the APA journals Psychotherapy: Theory, Research, Practice, Training and Review of General Psychology." explains an Energy Psychology site here:
RET technicians my family has had experience with and trust are listed on the right sidebar.
Here is a link where you can try a few kinds of self help emotional release: https://www.r4r.support/
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3. Forgiving out loud,
specifically in present time according to Dr. Jan Graf's 4 steps below. Forgiving cuts unseen energy connections. My teenage daughter said she mostly had to forgive herself. Forgive people by name, forgive your life, your body, your ancestor's and the DNA passed down to you...
1. Forgive outloud to yourself to be more effective.
2. Be specific as to who you are forgiving and what you are forgiving them for.
3. Use present tense, "I forgive" rather than "I can, I will, I'd like to, I should, or I need to forgive."
4. Be sincere and live the 70 times 7 Principle."
(Dr. Jan Graf homework and class notes, Centerville, UT, Dec. 3, 2011)
See www.grafstressmanagement.com
A second witness to the power of forgiveness is MK Strydom, MD who teaches that forgiveness of God, self and others must be completed for healing to occur. Her book Healing Begins with Sanctification of the Heart is free online as a PDF. (In this amazing book she also teaches about generational clearing and of the very real healing power of removing the toxic mindset behind specific illnesses. This medical doctor also teaches to clear any evil spirits influencing illness and outlines from the Bible which ones are behind specific illnesses!)
4. Chasing Darkness
Sensitive people (such as those with High Sense Perception and spiritual gifts like being empathic) may tend to exhibit too much compassion - even subconsciously - and become vulnerable to energetic attacks. Psychiatrists and doctors have written books about this along with those who've experienced it firsthand. One of my clients wrote me a letter about this as it relates to negative thoughts. Read it here:
/tamarasbook/2013/01/email-to-author-13113-hi-tamara-i-have.html
My daughter and hundreds of clients have found that chasing darkness (D&C 50) and rebuking evil and unclean spirits in Jesus Christ's name is remarkably helpful.
When they learn to ground to their own energy and live in gratitude, this step is needed far less often. Learn more on this post:
http://tamarasbook.blogspot.com/2008/12/fascinating-paper-on-evil-spirits.html
where people have even used this scripture-based help toreportedly overcome same sex attraction and pornography addictions.
My first book, Healing Arts, has dozens of related quotes from general authorities and scriptures in two chapters on this topic. My second book has two chapters on this subject, also.
“An article in the British medical journal The Practitioner (March 1974) Dr. Richard Mackarness (Assistant Pyschiatrist at Park Prewett Hospital, Basingstoke in Hapshire ) recorded how [casting out evil] helped a patient suffering from a schizoid illness.” (Ken McAll, MD, Healing the Family Tree, p 80-81, emphasis added)
5. Living in Higher Consciousness
This means learning to THINK differently. To begin changing one's perspective on challenges such as mental illness, read this post on "Mighty Spirits."
Beyond flipping one's perceptions about illness, alsolearn to think differently by practicing forgiveness, gratitude and praise in all things.
This is introduced in my first book, Healing Arts - A Gift from God and taught specifically step by step in my second book, An LDS Approach to Energy Healing.
Living in a higher vibration of consciousness invites more intelligence in the Light of Christ, also known as "life force energy," into one's being.
Practice daily "mental hygiene" by watching your words. A prophet taught that "Faith works by words."
One of my clients wrote, "I finally understand that this whole 'bipolar' thing is about the WAR within my thoughts!! ... The most effective ones seem to be "I am a victim," ...blaming others, criticism, etc."
Learn to create what you desire instead of repeating old patterns.
Learn more on this post: here.
Rapid Eye Techs often teach free Positive Skills for Life classes on universal laws that affect Thoughts, Perception, and Health...
www.RapidEyeTechnology.com offers them online.
Find a teacher grounded in the gospel of Christ. Leslie Householder also teaches of Seven Universal Laws.
Learn to create what you desire first spiritually so it may manifest physically. James Cox' course on "Becoming Spiritually Centered" by learning the thought patterns of Christ is another great option!
Here is a trifold brochure with 12 helps I've gathered.
Click here: https://drive.google.com/file/d/16uhyU-AlK8L9K1-fM38BP0NQ78tquwgL/view?usp=sharing
Website readers are advised to read my full Disclaimer page by clicking on the main page's "Disclosure" Tab (at the top)
and to consult with your health care professional in order to make an informed decision about the use of integrative methods.
Psychologist Jacob A. Hess, PhD. wrote a lengthy article on long-term healing from emotional illness. A radio talk show host summarized his work in an email which said:
"Many components of our modern culture appear to be toxic to emotional health... [one being] the sense of helplessness created by a belief in the 'chemical imbalance' paradigm of mental illness."
I agree. Oversimplifying mental illness to this view alone is MISLEADING!
Scientific research shows this view is deeply contested. It is wrong for the public to be told with confidence that
certain answers have been found. "Rather," Dr. Hess wrote:
"Basic treatment questions ... remain deeply contested - at least among scientists. . . .
Those facing severe emotional problems, their families and others… all deserve clear and comprehensive information on any issue relevant to the problem they are facing.
I totally agree with the late Diana Hoffman who said, ‘There is the need for a more open, honest and complete dialogue about what we really know and don’t know about mental health.’" (Dr. Jacob Hess, Psychologist, writer, and research director at Utah Youth Village)
This psychologist's article is available at
It is in the "spirit of sharing comprehensive information" that I have written about what my family has learned. It will bump up against what the general public has been told about mental health. I share it with all the hope in my heart that some day TRUTH will prevail and be a blessing to all.
For more info read What Psychiatrists say: /tamarasbook/2013/05/a-promise-of-hope.html
Contact
If you are seeking sessions with intent to affect physical issues, Tamara often recommends graduates of Investigating Health by Courtney Beardall or graduates of Radionics by Sabrina Potter or sessions of Foot Zoning.
Notice a list of energy work facilitators she or her children have had sessions with on the right sidebar as well as below here. (All happen to be LDS except for the constitutional homeopath).
An online listing for Tamara is HERE
RAPID EYE TECHNICIANS
MRET = Master Rapid Eye Technician
"DER" Signifies that they have taken my class on Deep Emotion Release (or learned it in sessions with me).
Kathy Bates, MRET
Melodie Chase, RET
Sessions in Orem, UT
debbiedudek@yahoo.com
iambreakingfree.net
Karin Cummins, LCSW, MS
Master Energy Therapist 435-525-7464
Sessions in Tremonton, UT & ID
Liberty Hamilton
Master Rapid Eye Technician, DER
Sessions in Fruit Heights, UT
near Kaysville 801-719-4313
Sylvia Laing, MRET, DER
Energy Therapist 307-272-9634
208-697-7393 Tetonia, ID
Rozann Petersen, MRET
Sessions in Morgan, UT 801-814-1892
Margaret Riding, MRET
Sessions in Ephraim, UT 435-851-4534
Wendy Spencer, MRET, DER 208-351-8429
(To find a Rapid Eye Technician
in your area click on this link:
http://www.rapideyetechnology.com/ )
in Cody, WY & on the phone.
See list of Facilitators she trained on
Such as these three:
Teresa Almond in Highland, UT
who does sessions there and over the phone 801-597-4743.
Willard, UT 435-734-9683
Sheena Smith Curtis
Investigating Health and Healer's Blueprint
www.Harmonizingyourhealth.com
Sherri Hoth, Radionics, Logan, UT
435-232-6801 leave text message
Becky Kimber, Radionics
(Grantsville, UT) phone sessions only
Gaylene Merritt, Radionics near Wellsville, UT
435-232-9566 text is best
Sessions in Layton, UT or on phone or at your home
801-755-0241
Teresa Olsen, LMT, Footzone Therapist
Garland, UT
See www.GiftsThroughHim.blogspot.com
Suzette Pulsipher, Radionics from Mantua, UT
Remote sessions on her own time. 435-225-2022
JaeLeen Smith, BA EEM-CP
Eden Energy Medicine Certified Practitioner
Synergize Wellness, LLC American Fork, UT
864-907-0238 edenenergytrainer@gmail.com
The Amazing Stephan Family Story Continues
My name is Tony
Stephan, and this is the story of how my family overcame mental
illness, after devastating loss. In 1994 I had been married to my beloved wife
Debbie for 23 years. During that time, we lost her father to suicide. He had struggled with severe depression, and
in 1978, fatally overdosed on medications to escape his suffering. Then,
sixteen years later, my beloved wife Debbie succumbed to the same fate . .
. suicide.
Debbie had been diagnosed with Bipolar Affective Disorder 1 with Rapid Cycling.
One day she simply ended it. The pain was unbearable. It was
like somebody took a chalkboard eraser and wiped out the most precious part of
my life.
It got worse. My son Joseph, fifteen years old, and his older sister,
Autumn, were diagnosed
with the same illness. Joseph was getting more
violent and dangerous. He was on 750 to 900 milligrams of Lithium or
Carbolith per day, and he was just a lost soul.
There was
one bright spot in this period, as I was blessed with a wonderful and
supportive new wife, Barbara. Barbara sought assistance for Joseph from a
noted psychiatrist. We went and met, praying for answers and hope.
Instead the Doctor became upset with me and asked Barbara to take Joseph
out in the waiting room. When the door closed it was like a shotgun going
off in my face. This noted psychiatrist said, "Mr. Stephan you need
a reality check. Don't you see it? What you see is what you've got.
He's not going to get better."
My daughter, Autumn, was in and out of the psychiatric ward constantly.
Drugs didn't work. Autumn was on five psychiatric med: Haldol,
Rivotril, Epival, Ativan and Cogentin; and she was out of control: suicidal one
minute, explosive the next - unable to care for herself... or her family.
WAS THERE
REALLY AN ANSWER OUT THERE?
I started to pray. I started to fast.
I started to search. I started to ask everyone, "Do you know
anything about bipolar?" There
just had to be an answer... somewhere!
One day it came. I was talking to
a friend I was working with, and telling him about how bad it was in our family
with Joseph's and Autumn's illnesses. He said that he didn't understand
mental conditions, but he explained to me that he had spent twenty years in the
agricultural industry. He said, "You know, I looked after hundreds
of thousands of animals, and we used to see this in the hog pens... these
animals would have this disorder, sometimes, called Ear-and Tail-Biting
Syndrome. These animals would often become aggressive and
hyper-irritable." My thoughts turned to Joseph and his violent
rages.
As my friend
told me how the animals become extremely irritable and enraged, and about the
explosive behavior, he said, "You know, we learned very quickly from the
agricultural literature, the scientific literature, that you could nutrate away the disorder with good
nutrition." In that instant I had an epiphany. A burden was
lifted and a sense of peace and light enveloped by mind. I knew that God
has just given me the answer: Nutrition!
On January 17, 1996, almost two years to the day that my wife had committed
suicide, we moved forward and starting loading micronutrients into Joseph.
Within thirty days, my son no longer exhibited any symptoms whatsoever
of bipolar disorder. It was gone! I remember sitting on the couch
with him after six weeks and him saying to me, "Dad! Dad! ... Where was I?
What happened to me? Why was I so angry? Why was I so
violent?" And I said, "Joe, it doesn't matter. That was another
day. It wasn't you. It was the disorder." There wasn't
anything that we could do alone to correct the disorder; but the
answer came, and I've never looked back -- and neither has Joseph.
My daughter
Autumn was next. Her husband had to work a graveyard shift so he dropped
Autumn off at our home for a week as she could not be left alone. It was
then that I placed her on the same nutrient program as Joseph. Within
a few days she became calm... with dramatically fewer mood swings.
She was able to care for herself and her young son.
Within 45
days she was clear of all of her five medications. Both Autumn and Joseph
have been well (as of 2013) for over eighteen years. Autumn has written a best
seller titled, A Promise of Hope, published
in 2007 by Harper Collins and available on Amazon.com.
When Autumn
and Joseph were made well, many people in the community started to come for
help with their loved ones. After they tried the program and experienced
the same results as my children, we started working with university researchers
like world-renowned behavioral research scientist from the University of
Calgary, Dr. Bonnie J. Kaplan. Dr. Kaplan's research was published in the
Journal of Clinical Psychiatry in 2001, which is the largest psychiatric
journal in the world. Soon there were other research studies and
publications. The University of Calgary, Harvard University, Ohio State
University - Department of Psychiatry, The University of Canterbury, New
Zealand, and many others. There are now researchers [from 4 countries], 16
Universities and 34 medical Journal publications who have studied its
effects on disorders like:
ADHD Autism
Obsessive-compulsive
disorder Bipolar affective
disorder
PTSD Addiction
Anxiety Stress
Depression early
Alzheimers & Dementia
It's about
restoration. It's about hope...healing...and health. Millions of bottles have
been shared and over 100,000 souls have said, "Thank you" for this
product. . . . I don't know if it
will work for you or your loved ones, but it might… that is my true hope.
Try it now.
Tony Stephan
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Their Amazing Story Continues...
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Hear Autumn's story of finding ANSWERS for bipolar that have helped 100,000+ people
Debbie had been diagnosed with Bipolar Affective Disorder 1 with Rapid Cycling. One day she simply ended it. The pain was unbearable. It was like somebody took a chalkboard eraser and wiped out the most precious part of my life.
It got worse. My son Joseph, fifteen years old, and his older sister, Autumn, were diagnosed
with the same illness. Joseph was getting more violent and dangerous. He was on 750 to 900 milligrams of Lithium or Carbolith per day, and he was just a lost soul.
My daughter, Autumn, was in and out of the psychiatric ward constantly. Drugs didn't work. Autumn was on five psychiatric med: Haldol, Rivotril, Epival, Ativan and Cogentin; and she was out of control: suicidal one minute, explosive the next - unable to care for herself... or her family.
On January 17, 1996, almost two years to the day that my wife had committed suicide, we moved forward and starting loading micronutrients into Joseph. Within thirty days, my son no longer exhibited any symptoms whatsoever of bipolar disorder. It was gone! I remember sitting on the couch with him after six weeks and him saying to me, "Dad! Dad! ... Where was I? What happened to me? Why was I so angry? Why was I so violent?" And I said, "Joe, it doesn't matter. That was another day. It wasn't you. It was the disorder." There wasn't anything that we could do alone to correct the disorder; but the answer came, and I've never looked back -- and neither has Joseph.
Tony’s new
technology delivers the same
ratio faster and more efficiently! EMP Lightning bypasses the gut & goes directly into the
bloodstream! A real GAME CHANGER!
It’s a powder
in a stik, in 3 flavors kids love!
Just pour it on the tongue for calm, coping and clarity!
Trial packs or bags sold by Tamara at: https://Hope.Renovaworldwide.com
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It has gone through 5 additional steps to become EMP Lightning which doesn't have to go through the gut! Just sprinkle it on your tongue and it's absorbed into the bloodstream!
Feel a difference quick as lightning.
Order yours here: https://Hope.Renovaworldwide.com
Faithful Answers to Criticism
This is a presentation I gave at an Energy Healing Conference in Salt Lake City, UT April 28, 2018. I share a very interesting story about a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints who was called in to her bishop’s office as a result of taking clients for Energy Healing. I hope that posting this speech will open doors to communication and be a blessing for both facilitators as well as those who do not yet understand them.
“Truly original, boundary breaking ideas are rarely welcomed at first, no matter who proposes them. Protecting the prevailing paradigm science moves slowly, because it doesn’t want to make mistakes. Consequently, genuinely new and important ideas are often subjected to nitpickingly intense scrutiny, if not outright rejection and revulsion,... But if the ideas are correct, eventually they will prevail. Eventually the new view becomes the status quo, and ideas that were rejected as madness will appear in the popular press, often touted by the very critics who did so much to impede their acceptance. Which is what we see today as a new paradigm comes into being.” Candace Pert, Molecules of Emotion
“Someone must live a new truth first. Someone must have wisdom to recognize the possibility, the courage to become that possibility and the strength to live that possibility as a reality. The reality must be lived among us, in a world that may not always support that truth. That someone becomes the living bridge.” Gregg Braden, Walking Between the Worlds, 80
“Over the 17 or 18 years I have been involved in these complimentary healing methods (at the insistence of the Spirit, I might add), I have bumped –up against the fears and misinformation of members of [my] church many times – including church leaders. Each time, with some time and communication, those fears have eventually been laid to rest. . . .
[Once] I went through some very difficult months while [my] Stake Presidency launched a full investigation of what I was doing (at the request of the Area Presidency) because of some outrageous and slanderous accusations . . .. [Someone] went to my Bishop and Stake President saying I was involved with satanic things. [The Savior himself was judged wrongfully by some people for casting out evil spirits and was accused of working through the devil.]
Both my Bishop and the Stake President know and love me – I’ve been a faithful ward and stake leader all these years and they have great faith in me, but the seriousness of the accusations brought the Area Presidency into the picture and THEY are the ones who instructed them to proceed with a full investigation.
Every man and woman I have ever served as a facilitator (and their companion) was called in and interviewed by our Stake President: every friend, walking partner, neighbor, etc. This went on for a few months and you can only imagine how horribly painful it was for me. There were days when I could not get out of bed. It was as if everyone who has ever trusted me was ALSO in the hot seat. Satan was reigning with … horror for those months. I ceased working with people, of course, awaiting the decision of my church leaders. When I attended my church meetings, I hardly dared sit by anyone in case they would be contaminated and called in next. It was a nightmare.
The interesting part is, I had never charged anyone a penny for my services. I worked many days, 8-13 hours a day, but never considered charging because I felt I was using spiritual gifts and it would be priestcraft [evil] to charge for using sacred gifts – especially since the most effective processes I used had been taught to me by Heavenly Father, the Holy Ghost and angels.
In the end the Stake President called me in. It was a Sunday. He was so humble, he was so tender and gentle. He told me on Saturday night he was watching the Women’s [Worldwide] Broadcast – listening to Sister Bonnie Parkin [THE GENERAL WOMEN’S OFFICER of her church] and the Spirit spoke clearly to him and said, “THAT could be [this sister’s name]. WHAT HAVE YOU DONE? Then he sobbed and begged me to forgive him for what he had put me and my family through. He said after talking to all those people he had come to know that “[I] had helped so many people in such wonderful ways.”
He said, “How can I make it right for you?” I asked if he had plans to call each of those people back into his office and let them know his finding. He promised to do so, to clear my name and my reputation of any blight that may have come about because of the investigation.
“My Stake President also instructed me that I was to get a license and start charging people for my services. This was very difficult for me, at first. I told him I didn’t feel it was right to charge people for help when I was using spiritual gifts of healing. He looked at me and said, “You are not charging for your spiritual gifts! You are being compensated for your time!” When he said the words ‘compensated for your time,’ it resonated with me.” (TL phone conversation, 4/25/18)
Then he said, “What else can I do – I want to make this up to you somehow.” I asked if he would give me a blessing which he promptly did. He sobbed through the blessing and hugged me goodbye.
The following Fast Sunday I felt prompted to bear my testimony in Sacrament meeting. I was terrified to do it, but the Spirit would not let me rest, so I did. My testimony was all about the Savior. Following my testimony, our Bishop stepped to the pulpit and said (with tears running down his face), “Brothers and Sisters, I love [so and so- saying her name]. I felt the power of her goodness and her spirit as she approached the pulpit today and I want to thank her for her example and her service to all of us in this ward.” It was a spellbinding moment, and I felt vindicated before my [church] members and have never felt sheepish since about what I do.
Shortly after these events, I took the [rest of the] Rapid Eye [Technology] Course. I already had certifications to use other modalities. I became certified and licensed – my business license hangs on the wall of my office. I openly have clients coming and going [not anymore since she is retired], and I accept payment for my services. I can never again be accused of practicing without a license (that was one of the concerns mentioned during the investigation, so I decided to remedy it. I guess doing things out of the goodness of one’s heart has its drawbacks – at least in this …telestial sphere.) Since those painful events, I’ve added some other modalities to my “tool box.”
I've paid a dear price (in terms of money, sacrifice and obedience) to do the [energy] work I do. I feel the blessings of heaven every day as I serve my brothers and sisters in need… That's why I love the words to the song, "I would be my brother's keeper, I would learn the healer's art. To the wounded and the weary, I would show a gentle heart."
Now that I've shared all that, perhaps you can understand why I get a bit defensive when I hear people toss out accusations against people who do this type of work. I'll admit that perhaps the individual involved is out of line, but my first impression will always be to give them a chance -- NOT JUDGE WITHOUT MORE INFORMATION.
I'm the first to acknowledge my weaknesses, but I also know that my motives are pure. So if we find that a person is misled or misinformed -- can we kindly deal with them, constructively showing them another way rather than lashing out -- especially if it is without "just cause". The Golden Rule applies here nicely. We all need kindness and patience as we learn…. define and carry out our life's missions.
Just want to send you all some love and encouragement tonight. You are doing good things. When opposition and storms wage against me, here's what I do. 1. I get on my knees and ask [God] what he wants me to learn. 2. I actively forgive those that have offended. 3. I actively ask for forgiveness for my human weaknesses. 4. I move forward and continue to follow what I've been inspired to do.
The statement issued by the church [spokesman] said, "“We urge Church members to be cautious about participating in any group that promises-in exchange for money-miraculous healings or that claims to have special methods for accessing healing power outside of properly ordained priesthood holders,” end quote
I've been to many energy healers and none of you have promised me miraculous healings in exchange for money. And you know what? I'm always careful to consider who to work with when it comes to energy healing.
I've had times when others casted doubt on what I was doing and it made me question myself. There is also a statement from the Church that cautions church members about attending seminars. I simply went and talked with my Bishop with a humble heart that was willing to learn and make changes if I needed it.
I know not everyone in this group is a member of my church. But for those of you that are, remember that the church is not against you. Don't feel like you have to hide. If you have concerns, just ask. The Lord will guide and direct you. And honestly, this firestorm will pass. Stay strong!
“When the children of Israel needed water in the wilderness, God told Moses to speak to a rock, and it would give its water to him. It was recorded: “And the Lord spake unto Moses, saying, Take the rod…. And speak ye unto the rock before their eyes; and it shall give forth his water.” (Numbers 20:7-8). However, Moses smote the rock with his rod twice instead of speaking to the rock as God had instructed him. He also said that he and Aaron would get the water and not God, so Moses was punished by not being able to go into the promised land. (Numbers 20: 9-12)” Vicki Alder, Mysteries in the Scripture, 149
One Incident- I took my son to Constitutional Homeopathy appointments and the gentleman doing them was concerned that I was such an open- minded member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. “Aren’t you going to get called in to talk to your church leaders?” he asked, wonderingly. I smiled and told him I wasn’t concerned at all because I had researched our beliefs and felt all the evidence I needed was in the book I wrote. It taught so many principles of energy work through scriptures and authoritative quotes!
(Glenda Christiaens, was a nursing professor at BYU and past president of the American Holistic Nursing Association https://www.heraldextra.com/news/local/education/college/byu-nursing-professor-elected-president-of-holistic-association/article_48ffe445-c27b-50d2-8aab-7b6d39338b05.html She had a group of nursing students focus on various complementary and alternative healing methods with clinical experiences in chiropractic offices, integrative medical clinics, …and will visit alternative health practitioners. …students will also attend labs where they will learn “hands on” healing modalities from experts in alternative medicine. “March/Apr. 2005 Stethascoop. p 4
https://nursing.byu.edu/Documents/students/newsletter/newsletter_apr05.pdf BYU Student Nurses Assoc.Sarah Jackson summed-up the learning experience well by saying, “I learned that evidence-based practice is so useful and will be a big part of the future of nursing.” ~Holly Willardson p 1 I also read how she led students in a guided imagery. https://nursing.byu.edu/Documents/students/newsletter/Dec2006.pdf Stethoscope p 2 of Vol 26 issue 2)
“Regarding the experience I shared -- may I just say that when it was all said and done, I was driving down the freeway one day and suddenly some truth distilled upon my mind. My reaction was so severe, I almost swerved off the road.”* (She had SHOCK at this realization.) She explains:
For over 17 years I have done energy work and for all those years I felt a little sheepish about it – knowing it was out of the ordinary and [wondering if it would] meet the approval of my [religious] leaders, but also knowing I was directed by Heavenly Father. Throughout those years I had yearned for the sanction and validation of my [church] leaders.
Whenever I expressed that heartfelt desire to [my husband] , he shook his head and said, “What do you mean… you HAVE their validation – they keep calling you to positions of leadership, … they invite you to speak at their meetings and give you rave reviews; they place their hands on your head and pronounce beautiful encouraging blessings; they approve all the… calls they get from out of town invit[ing] you to speak in [various] congregations; in interviews and across the pulpit they constantly express their love and confidence in you; …what do you want?”
Well, in my heart of hearts, the reasons those “logical” reasons did not fill me with ‘validation and sanction’ from my leaders is because they didn’t fully know what I was doing. Some of them have had some idea of what I do, and others have been totally oblivious that I had a ‘side job’ and had people coming to my door year in and year out for help with difficult and complex problems.
Meanwhile, after that full-fledged investigation by ALL my local priesthood leaders [including the Area Presidency who now know my name], they DO know what I do. They also know why I do it and how it is affecting the people I serve. So, you see, what the Spirit distilled upon my mind was this: “NOW your prayer has been fully answered – you have the complete validation of your priesthood leaders.” What a shock!! * It was true. That which I had longed for had come to pass.
Even though it required ‘walking through a fire’ to bring it about, it was worth it!! No more [was what I do a] secret, no more hedging, no more worries that I’m going to be ‘found out’ and thrown out…. Those thoughts and feelings had plagued me all those years, and now they are gone.
Do you see why I am much more confident to speak up, (as I did in class)… I did it for the sake of [those] who may be walking a similar path of contradiction of fear: having been beckoned by the spirit to look into these healing arts, but yet wrestling feelings of fear that they may be ‘on the edge’ and get criticized or punished by their church leaders. I don’t have fear any more – because I’ve already walked that path and survived. …That’s the ‘rest’ of the story.” (Email to Tamara Laing, Feb. 27, 2004 “RE: Notes to Diane forwarded to me”)
“Spirit helpers work at all levels and will help the patient at these levels if required to do so. But this will depend on the quality of your energy field. At the highest levels, they will appear as angelic forms… It should be appreciated by [facilitators], who are aware of what their spirit helpers are saying and doing, that to convey any of this to the [client] may not be either helpful or appropriate. Further, it is against the Code of Conduct (mentioned earlier) to give this kind of information to a [client] in the form of a ‘reading’ during the actual session. This is to prevent what may be false information being given to a trusting patient under the guise of ‘higher teachings.’ Use your common sense with all inner guidance and use your discretion as to how you convey this to others, if at all.” (Jack Angelo, Your Healing Power, 199)
“Many energy healing practitioners think they are safe because their websites are similar to all the others. This is unwise because over 95% of websites, featuring the services of energy healing practitioners, carry significant legal risks. Remember licensing boards, regulatory agencies, and the courts have a negative perception of energy healing methods and consider them to be unsubstantiated and suspect.” MidgeMurphy.com
• Whenever trainers and presenters do live or media demonstrations, they must remind the audience to maintain confidentiality concerning the identity of the volunteer and any personal information that may arise.
Provide care for any volunteers who may not have completed processing initiated by a live demonstration unless a waiver was signed indicating the release of this responsibility.
CLIENT TESTIMONIALS
This testimonial has 2 major problems. First, because obesity is considered a medical condition, the testimonial would be considered to be a claim that the practitioner has cured a medical condition. The FTC would require scientific evidence that Suzie’s energy healing method successfully treats obesity. Second, because obesity is considered a medical condition and the testimonial uses the word “treatment”, the practitioner faces of the risk of being charged with practicing medicine without a license.
State that all information is of a general nature only and must not be taken as advice; and
“Reiki is defined as a “spiritual healing art” that is performed on an individual by a Reiki Practitioner by “transmitting healing life force energy” through the hands. It is the position of the Division that to the extent that Reiki is used as a “spiritual healing art” and does not involve the methods outlined in the scope of practice of Massage Therapy, then Reiki is not a modality of massage. However, should a Reiki Practitioner while performing the “spiritual healing art” involve the use of any of the methods outlined in the scope of practice of Massage Therapy, then the Reiki Practitioner must be licensed as a Massage Therapist.”
Aligning ourselves with new regulations protects unlicensed facilitators and at the same time, clarifies perceptions about the paradigm shift and why we do what we do! Informed consent opens doors to sharing individual messages and being a bridge. If criticized, we can aspire to be better instead of bitter by staying spiritually centered and finding gratitude. Through the grace of Jesus Christ, we have the power to transform criticism into a source of spiritual growth! Be the Bridge!
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